Hispanic Women
Distinguishing the Good from the Bad
We remove any woman from our listings for unacceptable conduct, including deception, insincerity, or other inappropriate behavior. Your choice of partner is yours. We flag any issue that could affect your safety or the long-term success of a relationship and provide candid insight on any Colombian woman we know upon request. Most Latin women who apply are sincere about finding love. If we discover someone is not, you will be the first to know, as in the case below.
Hello, (Client Name)
You are receiving this message because you were or are communicating with (Woman’s Name), ID ##### from International Introductions. We removed (Woman’s Name) from our active list because of inappropriate conduct. Our review indicates her intentions are not sincere and appear focused on monetary gain. We don’t take such actions without documented evidence. If you are presently communicating with her then you should reconsider any further contact with her. If you sent her money, then it is our strong belief that you are being taken. We remove any woman who demonstrates deception or related concerns even when doing so reduces our revenue. If you want details about our findings, reply to this message and we will provide them.
Thank You
Jamie
International Introductions
There is no single indicator for recognizing bad intent. Anti-scamming sites will recommend that you never give the woman money prior to a visit. That rule prevents most cons, yet there may be rare legitimate situations where your financial assistance would be appropriate. At the same time, how would you know whether you are being taken or just providing needed financial help to someone you are fond of? Your best course is simply to ask our advice on any matter that requires added attention or insight. As your distant agent, you can expect our honest appraisal and aid on all matters that cannot be seen or handled by you so that you are not taken advantage of. Of course, this only works for those that allow us to help. Strong emotions can block clear judgment, as with the client shown below.
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Tell Jamie he was right about XXXX all the way. She is everything he mentioned! Forgive me for not listening and taking your advice. She really knows how to work her phony charm. I should have taken the romance tour and let you help find me a good Latin wife. I did see many beautiful Colombian women and the hotel was great. Excellent country! I haven’t given up on finding a good Latina.
Making the Right Selection for Your Latin Bride
Get to know the Colombian woman you are interested in thoroughly. Communicate until you are clear about her intentions today and her plans for tomorrow. Learn not only what she thinks but how she thinks. She should answer all your questions and ask her own questions. Open and direct communication is your best safeguard against misunderstanding. Once you return home from your visit, the regular calls and messages should continue. The content, passion, and frequency of her emails will show the depth of her interest.
You’ll have fun dating your Latin lady, but fun alone is not the basis for building a future family. Evaluate the strength and durability of the foundation. Don’t let good looks and fun times distract you from judging marital suitability. This is one of the most important decisions of your life, so don’t approach it as a selection from a dinner menu.
Be modest with your generosity. Do not send money for support or the purchase of excessive gifts prior to your visit. This has nothing to do with affordability; it is about keeping your judgment clear. Evaluate her character and interest based on her actions and sincerity, not on what you give her or what she receives.
Be cautious of any request for money. We strongly suggest that you not send money to any woman before you have met her. Most people in Latin America face financial stress. The request for money is a disqualifier and a message to move on. You want her interest to be romantic, not financial. Attractive or youthful appearances do not guarantee sincerity; the example below shows a typical money-request script.
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We do not allow insincere or manipulative women to access or deceive our clients. Unlike competitors who ignore the prevalence of scammers, we listen to our clients and act on verified information. When dishonesty appears, we remove the offender immediately to protect those seeking genuine relationships.
Heed warning signs. Clear communication and an alert, observant mindset reveal hidden intentions. Most Colombian women are transparent, but use judgment, ask direct questions, and watch for inconsistencies. When we are involved, we provide an objective view that a man influenced by emotion may miss.
Be intolerant of dishonesty and unreliability. You have many good Latin women to choose from, so don’t waste time or patience on those who fail to keep their commitments or show inconsistent behavior.
Stay focused on your Latin wife search. If a woman says she wants only friendship, she is not romantically interested. Such ‘friendships’ are one-sided—you give, she receives. Do not accept it. Move on.
We cannot control anyone’s actions. You must be the final judge of a woman’s behavior and character and decide what steps to take. Trust your instincts and never compromise your core values. You don’t have to when choosing a Latin wife.
Change and adaptation are required. If a South American woman hesitates, refuses, or is unable to learn English, move on to someone stronger and more open to growth. Pursue women who are willing and self-motivated to learn and adapt.
Colombian women live in a male-dominated society where the family dictates to the single Latin women and the man takes the lead. Many women are raised to respect authority and to rely on the man for solutions. For some, this creates an inability to manage their lives and prevent problems. If a woman already struggles to manage her life, those challenges usually grow in a more complex society like the United States. Choose accordingly. Prefer a woman who takes initiative, solves problems, and shows progress over one who lets things happen to her. Confirm her plan for autonomy, language learning, and decision-making. Measure the degree, cause, and frequency of her problems; those patterns tell you who is a builder and who is not.
Colombian women are very affectionate and can fall in love quickly. Look for consistent signs of real interest: Does she hold your hand in public? Is she playful with you and does she show physical affection? Do you have satisfying sex? Does she sound happy when you call? Does she send you romantic cards or notes? Does she tell you that she misses you? Does she ask to spend time together doing shared activities (not shopping)? Does she talk about building a family with you? Romantic love without passion is hollow, so choose a partner who responds in the ways you value.
We have seen many interactions between American men and Colombian women and share guidance based on that experience. With patience and persistence, you can find the right partner. Do not overstate luck. Outcomes improve with clear criteria, steady effort, and good judgment. Our matchmaking service accelerates this process and consistently delivers results.
What Stops Her from Leaving You?
The same reason that would stop an American woman from leaving: she loves you and wants to stay. If you do not have confidence in your ability to judge a woman’s true love or keep a woman’s sincere interest, then the fear of abandonment will persist. Ask yourself what would make any woman leave you. If you are afraid of losing someone, then make yourself hard to lose. Build the qualities that will keep you in demand. That power is in your hands. It is important that you project yourself positively and believe you are as much a prize as the woman you select is to you. With Colombian women you start with an edge; you are a much stronger husband candidate than local options. However, that advantage only matters if your character and actions back it up. One has to be interesting, fun, emotionally secure, and capable to retain beautiful women sought by others. Focus on reliability, honesty, emotional steadiness, good communication, shared goals, and consistent effort—the traits that make a good match unlikely to leave. A good match is built on shared purpose, emotional security, and continuous appreciation, not temporary excitement.