Distinguishing the Good from the Bad
The Hispanic women profiled on International Introductions will be removed for any of a variety of unacceptable behaviors. We do not tolerate any deception, criminal acts, insincerity, or danger-level ignorance. While legal factors prevent us from continuing to show you the women´s faces, we will respond to your requests for personal insight on any Colombian woman we may know of. Even though the responsibility and decision of who you select for your Hispanic bride is solely yours, International Introductions will inform our clients of anything we see that is of concern or interest to the health and long-term viability of your relationship. Understand that the vast majority of the Hispanic women are sincere with their intentions. Nevertheless, when we find one that is not you will be the next to know:
This email is being sent to you because you either purchased the address or the translation services for XXXX, ID #### from the International Introductions website. We removed XXXX from our active list because of inappropriate behavior. We don´t consider her to be a very sincere woman and belive that her true intentions are to seek monetary gain. We don´t take women off the website that make us money unless we know them to be bad women. If you are presently communicating with her then you should reconsider any further contact with her. If you gave her money then it is our strong belief that you are being taken. She has demonstrated that she is a liar and a deceiver. We have found that Latin American women desperate to leave their country will hook up with anyone to do so.
Engage The Exotic
There is no one quick, comprehensive indicator for recognizing a bad Hispanic woman. Most marriage anti-scamming sites will recommend that you never give the woman money prior to a visit. This would certainly prevent you from being conned, yet there may be rare legitimate situations where your financial assistance would be appropriate. At the same time how would you know whether you are being taken or just providing needed financial help to someone you are fond of. Your best course is simply to ask our advice on any matter that requires added attention or insight. As your distant agent you can expect our honest appraisal and aid on all matters that cannot be seen or handled by you. Unless we are completely removed from the communication process we generally find out what is going on well before anyone can be taken advantage of. Of course this only works for those that allow us to help:
Tell Jamie he was right about XXXX all the way. She is everything he mentioned! Forgive me for not listening and taking your advice. She really knows how to work her phony charm. I should have taken the romance tour and let you help find me a good Latin wife. I did see many beautiful Colombian women and the hotel was great. Excellent country! I haven´t given up on finding a good Latina.
Making the Right Selection For Your Hispanic Bride
Get to know the Hispanic woman you are interested in. Communicate and communicate until you have no doubts in your mind where she stands today and where she may stand tomorrow. You need to know what she thinks and – more importantly – how she thinks. She should answer all your questions and ask questions herself. Open and direct communications is your best insurance for making sure that everything is as it seems and as you want it to be. Once you return home from your visit the good communications must continue. The content, passion and frequency of her emails will show you the depth of her interest.
You´re going to have fun dating your Latin lady, but fun is not the basis for building a future family. Know the strength and durability of the foundation for that family. You will not want good looks and fun times to distract your evaluation of marital suitability. This will be one of the most important decisions you will ever make so don´t approach it as a selection from a dinner menu.
Be modest with your generosity. Do not send money for support or the purchasing of excessive gifts prior to your visit. This has nothing to do with affordability. You need to evaluate her character and interest and this should be void of any material return.
Be cautious of any request for money. We strongly suggest that you not give money to any Hispanic woman until you have met her. Most Latin American women have economic problems. While the request may be small it is best to wait. You want her to be your romantic interest, not her economic interest. Even the young, beautiful, and innocent-looking Latinas can be schemers:
We do not allow insincere, scheming women to access and scam our clients. Please check out our local competition for such freedoms.
Heed any warning signals. Good communications and an observant and alert disposition will clue you to any hidden intentions. Most Latin American women are transparent but still use your good judgment and ask inquisitive questions and watch for inconsistencies. As an objective eye, when we are involved, we can help see things that a man under an emotional interest to a Hispanic woman does not.
Be intolerant of dishonesty and unreliability. You have many good Hispanic women to choose from without extending patience to those that do not meet their voluntary commitments.
Stay focused on your Hispanic bride search. If the Latin woman tells you she is only interested in friendship this means the same thing if the words came from an American woman. It means she is not interested in you, but is being nice by offering her friendship and she does not expect her offer of friendship to be taken seriously. It is best to move on.
We cannot control the Hispanic women´s actions. You will have to be the final judge on their behavior and character and what steps you plan on taking from such. Use your gut feelings and don´t compromise what is important to you, you don´t have to when it comes to finding a Hispanic wife.
Change and adaptation is a requirement for any Hispanic bride. If a South American woman shows a hesitation or inability to learn English consider moving on to someone stronger and more open to change. The Hispanic women willing and self-motivated to learn and change are the ones to pursue for a wife.
South American women live in a male dominated society where the family dictates to the single Latin women and the man takes the lead. Many Hispanic women are raised to respect authority and to rely on the man to take care of them and their problems. For some Hispanic women this creates an inability to manage their lives and prevent problems. If the Latin woman is incapable of managing her life it will only get worse if you place her in a more complex society like America. You can select a Hispanic woman that makes things happen and can think and progress or one that lets things happen. Measure the degree, cause and frequency of her problems and you will know who is which.
Latin American women are very affectionate and can fall in love quickly. Does she hold your hand when you walk in public? Is she playful with you? Do you have a wonderful sex life? Does she express happiness when you call her and see her? Does she send you romantic cards or notes? Does she tell you that she misses you? Does she request to be with you often and for the two of you to be doing things together (not shopping)? Does she talk about having your children? Romantic love without passion is hollow, so select a Hispanic woman who responds in the manner you desire.
We see many interactions between American men and Hispanic women and we offer our suggestions from this experience. With patience and persistence you can find the perfect Hispanic bride for you. Don´t overemphasize luck as playing an uncontrollable role in this outcome. Our Latin Romance Tour can make this happen. It continually does.